her stuff.

2008-02-18T14:52:00.000-08:00

you sit there in your chair, her leg close to yours. she`s beautiful, she`s perfect and she`s inches from your touch.

any yet she may as well be a thousand miles away for all that you can do.

so you sit and relax and focus on imagining yourself slowly desceding down in an elevator deep into the ground.

each floor down you descend allows you a greater sense of relaxation and awareness.

as you find yourself relaxing turn slightly and look at her now. see her breathing and the way her eyes move and blink and the way she reaches for her drink and swallows the fluid......

and you gently and subtly copy a few of her movements.

she shows some minor twitch of her foot for a second or two and you mirror the movement after a comfortable four beat delay.

she unfolds her legs and stretches in her seat.

again you copy with the same languid comfort.

she turns to look at you now and you smile and shift your attention to her and you will know if it is ok to say anything to her.

and if not then you are free to go or to continue your covert mirroring.

she may even instigate conversation.

the process of mirroring has the effect of contacting a deep level of her awareness that once touched can be used to have an intimate dialog with her without speaking.

some women are aware of this either intuitively or otherwise and delight in the game.

some are oblivious but still respond.

others will reject your approach as if you said hello.

again, it`s not important how she responds. what is important is that you practice and learn to observe the reaction.

recently i had this exact experience with a woman and i sat almost knee to knee with her for half an hour while she went through all manner of contortions to get my overt attention.

i sat there slightly mirroring her and reading a newspaper.

she eventually got so pissed off that i wouldn`t say anything to her that she sighed heavily and walked out.

i saw her again in the same coffee shop while i was with another woman a week later.

she lasted about two minutes before she left.

so what was going on here?

i made an investment in a potential future conversation with the first woman.

why didn`t i talk to the first woman the first time?

i needed to have the covert conversation with her and leave it at that. her reaction to seeing me with another woman confirmed my initial feeling.

the meta-awareness.

2008-02-18T12:23:00.001-08:00

all of everything we do happens in a state of consciousness below our level of awareness.

for all intents and purposes we are sleeping all of the time.

we only wake up out of fear or shock.

learning to attain a meta-awareness allows us to control the waking state without the shock or fear prompt.

when we find ourselves comfortably awake in this world, it is like existing in a place where everyone else is moving in slow-motion and you can read thier intentions as they move.

at first this can be a little disconcerting, but over time you realise that you can accept that most people are asleep all of the time and they are afraid to wake up.

so why would one want to attain this meta-awareness if everyone else is asleep?

because you have always been able to be awake for periods of time.....otherwise you wouldn`t have read this far.

this meta-awareness state is the state that mystics and shamans and poets and artists and crazy people have been reporting, painting and writing about for centuries.

we all have a little bit of this in us, but society crushes it for most at an early age so that we will do work for the fuedal masters.

so how do we learn this state?

stay tuned, fellow travellers.

meta awareness

her stuff.

the meta-awareness.